Why did he do this?? he says it was a distraction but im so hurt x?

If he don't believe the kid is his tell him to get a DNA test it'll just prove he is the father. But after the babys born you guys have to push all that aside for the baby. Crazy as it seems (I have two kids) whatever your feeling (like nervous or sad) your baby will feel it!! You don't want to agrue in front of the baby. Either way try to work things out even if its just a friends term for the baby. And maybe you'll find a better man =) best wishes